Gay Couple Were Told Their Love Was “Just A Phase” Recreate Their Pride Photo 24 Years Later
A gay couple have recreated a photo they took at Pride 24 years ago, and it has capture the internet’s hearts. The couple, Nick Cardello, 54, and Kurt English, 52 met back in 1992 and were told that ‘their love was just a phase’, but they have been together ever since. They married in 2008 and now live in Tampa, Florida.
The original photo of the gay couple was taken at a march for gay rights in Washington, DC back in 1993. They then recreated it at the Equality March for Unity & Pride in Washington which took place in early June 2017. They posted the photos side-by-side online and it got retweeted with someone captioning it “It’s just a phase”—in reference to the condescending way some people speak to gay couples, or LGBTQ couples, about their relationships. Originally the photo was one of many the couple started to share of themselves together on social media. It was a way for them to celebrate their love and be proud of their relationship.
“We made the decision to start posting photos of us being us!” the gay couple told New York Daily News. “That meant kissing, holding hands — these were things we kept off social media because it can make some people feel uncomfortable. I realized that this was just another closet we had to come out of.”
Gay Couple Come Out Of The Social Media Closet
Nick Cardello and Kurt English today, they first met back in 1992.
It was only after they were shared and retweeted thousands of times that they released what it meant, especially for younger members of the LGBTQ community.
“People need to see same sex couples just being couples…We need to get more images like this out there so the youth today can have positive role models. Suicide is a real threat to our LGBTQ youth. If one kid can find hope, that’s all that matters.” they said, continuing, “The post pointed out to us that it is rare to see these types of images in the media — same-sex couples growing old together. The youth needs to see that it is possible to find a loving partner and relationship that can last!”
You can check out some pics of the happy couple through the years, below. Along with some tweets that sum up people’s positive responses.
Photos Of Nick And Kurt Through The Years
LGBTQ Community Responds To Happy Gay Couple
”it's just a phase” pic.twitter.com/WlkgiHDnh9
— mh (@tagyourheathen) June 18, 2017
They've been marching for so long they actually witnessed gay marriage being legalized in all states pic.twitter.com/nOwlSGg1OH
— ً (@Durrrah) June 19, 2017
This is so necessary. For young gays to see old gays happy, in love, and proud. Thank you for giving me a bit of hope for the future
— Quinn (@intelfrog) June 19, 2017
Iconic. I aspire for this long lasting love https://t.co/YNTbczvhuG
— Alluring Ivy (@Drebae_) June 19, 2017
Relationship goals AF https://t.co/mZ8ttCwhzH
— Bruise Knees (@Bandizzo) June 19, 2017
They lasted longer than most straight people's marriages.
— Sean Hastings (@4_hastings) June 19, 2017
I know a lot of y'all are homophobic on here but like it or not, this shit beautiful dawg. They dead grew old together https://t.co/c3eQpjqjzs
— Jay$auce (@valentinosaucee) June 20, 2017
I'm not crying, you're crying. https://t.co/4Vnts8gFLh
— Seth Lyon (@Lamelion) June 20, 2017
America’s oldest living World War II veteran Richard Overton, a survivor of the last great war, turned 111 years old this year and celebrated his big day…
A Diamond battery, just like the Shirley Bassey song, really last forever. Scientists at the University of Bristol in the UK have made a diamond battery with…
Prepare for some NSFW Disney in ‘DisHollywood’, a visual project by Jose Rodolfo Loaiza Ontiveros. You’ve never seen Disney characters behave like this before, probably due to…
Getting drunk while normal dating can be fun (or disastrous, one of the two), but getting drunk while speed dating? You might think there’s not enough time…
Bioquark don’t want you to mention the ‘z’ word, but an upcoming trial from the life sciences company could see brain dead people resurrected from the dead….
On closed off roads under the cover of night teens in the Dominican Republic partake in illegal street racing on custom motorbikes. This illicit and intriguing culture…
Any dad would do anything for their son, but unlike these amazing pictures by Dad Adrian Sommeling using his Photoshop skills, most fathers don’t have the ability…
When it comes to cheating on your partner nobody really wins. And no where is that made clearer than in these shocking cheating spouse confessions from married…
It’s time to get ready for the arrival of body painted superheroes. You’ve probably heard of cosplay but Canadians Lianne Moseley and Kay Pike, two makeup artists…
When it comes to virtual reality and augmented reality, these have been the hot tech buzzwords on everyone’s lips over the last few years. Bringing digitally-created visuals…
The fall of the Simpsons has no doubt happened. Of course, in its heyday The Simpsons was undeniably the best of the best. It was a family…